Oct 30, 2011

Love.Dream.Whisper.

Please, go see my best friend's blog and her latest post. You'll see it's worth it.
http://love-dream-whisper.blogspot.com/2011/10/letter-to-love.html
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As  I quoted in one of my first posts: "A person is, among all else, a material thing, easily torn and not easily mended."  - Ian McEwan (Atonement

Oct 29, 2011

Icons of the 20th Century

6. The Kennedys
A powerful family in the United States in the 50-60s of the 20th Century, that played an important role in the social and political life of the country at the time.
Famous for:
I. John F.Kennedy 
II.Jackie Kennedy
III. Robert Kennedy


I. John F. Kennedy
( May 29, 1917 - November 22, 1963)
35 President of the United States 
served from 1961 until his assassination in 1963
Political views: democratic
Religion: Roman Catholicism
Served in the Military Service (1941-1945); Rank - Lieutenant; Battles/Wars : World War II
Awards: "Navy and Marine Corps Medal", "Purple Heart", "American Defense Service Medal", "American Campaign Medal", "Asiatic-Pacific Campaign Medal", "World War II Victory Medal".


John Fitzgerald Kennedy, the son of Joseph Patrick Kennedy and Rose Fitzgerald, was born in Brookline, Massachusetts, on 29 May, 1917. His great grandfather, Patrick Kennedy, had emigrated from Ireland in 1849, and his grandfathers were important political figures in Boston. Kennedy's father was a highly successful businessman who later served as ambassador to Great Britain (1937-40).
John (Jack) was the second of three sons in the Kennedy family, and was always in the shadow of his older brother, Joseph Kennedy Jr., who was a football star and a leading student (Actually, Joseph was the one who was expected to have a political career, but after his death  in 1944 (aged only 29), the family expectations fell on Jack's shoulders). Jack was rather rebellious and  used to make toilet seats in the school explode with firecrackers.He graduated in June 1935, and for the school yearbook, for which he was business manager, he was voted the "Most Likely To Succeed". 
As an upperclassman at Harvard, Kennedy became a more serious student and developed an interest in political philosophy.
He joined the United States Navy in 1941 and became an intelligence officer. After USA entered the Second World War, he was sent to the South Pacific in August 1943, his boat was hit by a Japanese destroyer. Two of his crew were killed but the other six men managed to cling on to what remained of the boat. After a five hour struggle, Kennedy and what was left of his crew, managed to get to an island five miles from where the original accident took place. Kennedy suffered a back injury and was sent back to the United States in December 1943.After he recovered, he was promoted to the rank of lieutenant. After a further operation on his back he returned to civilian life in 1945.  
A member of the Democratic Party, Kennedy won election to the House of Representatives in 1946. Over the next couple of years he established himself as a loyal supporter of Harry S. Truman.
John Kennedy was elected to the Senate in 1952. The following year he married Jacqueline Bouvier, the daughter of a New York City financier. Over the next few years four children were born, but only two, Caroline and John, survived infancy.

In 1960 Kennedy entered the race to become the Democratic Party presidential candidate. Kennedy won Democratic primaries in New Hampshire, Wisconsin, Indiana, Ohio, Oregon, Maryland and West Virginia. At the national convention in July 1960, Kennedy was nominated on the first ballot. He selected Lyndon B. Johnson as his running mate.
Kennedy's candidacy was controversial because no Roman Catholic had ever been elected president. If elected, at age 43, Kennedy would be the second youngest president in the United States history ( Theodore Roosevelt was only 42 when he replaced the assassinated William McKinley in 1901). In contrast, Richard Nixon, the Republican Party candidate, had served for eight years as vice president under Dwight Eisenhower. During the campaign, Kennedy used Cuba as an illustration of Republican weakness against communism. In campaign speeches Kennedy would charge that the threat of communism was now only "ninety miles from our shore". The writer Richard Helms claims that the leadership of the CIA favoured Kennedy over Richard Nixon. He admits that it was possible that CIA Director Allen Dulles leaked information to the Kennedy team. During the campaign Nixon highlighted his opponent's lack of experience but when the votes were counted, Kennedy won by 34, 226, 925 votes to 34, 108, 662.
At his inaugural address on 20th January, 1961, Kennedy challenged the people of the United States with the statement "Ask not what your country can do for you, but rather what you can do for your country." Kennedy also wanted the young people of the country to help the undeveloped world. He announced the establishment of the Peace Corps, a scheme that intended to sent 10,000 young people to serve in Africa, Asia and Latin America. Kennedy argued that this "practical, inexpensive, person-to-person program will plant trust, good will and capacity for self-help" in the undeveloped world.
In the first speech he made to the American public as their President, Kennedy made it clear that he intended to continue Eisenhower's policy of supporting the South Vietnamese government. He argued that if South Vietnam became a communist state, the whole of the non-communist world would be at risk. If South Vietnam fell, Laos, Cambodia, Burma, Philippines, New Zealand and Australia would follow. If communism was not halted in Vietnam, it would gradually spread throughout the world. This view became known as "the Domino Theory". Kennedy stated: " No other challenge is more deserving of our effort and energy... Our security may be lost piece by piece, country by country." Under his leadership, America would be willing to: "pay any price, bear any burden, meet any hardship, support any friend, oppose any foe to assure the survival and access of liberty". 
When Kennedy replaced Dwight Eisenhower as president of the United States he was told about the CIA plan to invade Cuba. Robert Kennedy admitted in an interview in 1964, that Kennedy agreed with the invasion, although he has some doubts. He was afraid that he would be seen as soft on communism if he refused permission for it to go ahead. Kennedy's advisers convinced him that Fidel Castro was an unpopular 
leader and that once the invasion started the Cuban people would support the CIA-trained forces. 
On April 14th, 1961, B-26 planes began bombing Cuba's airfields. Cuba was left with only eight plains and seven pilots. Two days later five merchant ships carrying 1,400 Cuban exiles arrived at the Bay of Pigs. The attack was a total failure. Two of the ships were sunk, including the ship that was carrying most of the supplies. Two of the ships that were attempting to give air-cover were also shot down. Within seventy-two hours all the invading troops had been killed, wounded or had surrendered. 
Kennedy privately vowed after the failure to overthrow Fidel Castro, that he would "splinter" the CIA into "a thousand pieces and scatter it to the winds".While it is true that Richard Bissell and Allen Dulles did lose their jobs over the failed invasion, Kennedy did not change his policy towards Castro. 
At the beginning of September 1962, U-2 spy planes discovered that the Soviet Union was building surface-to-air missile (SAM) launch sites. There was also an increase in the number of Soviet ships arriving in Cuba which the United States government feared were carrying new supplies of weapons. President Kennedy complained to the Soviet Union about these developments and warned them that the United States would not accept offensive weapons (SAMs were considered to be defensive) in Cuba. Kennedy was in a difficult position. The public opinion showed that his own ratings had fallen to their lowest point since he became president. Kennedy feared that any trouble over Cuba would lose the Democratic Party even more votes, as it would remind voters of the Bay of Pigs disaster. One poll showed that over 62 per cent of the population were unhappy with his policies on Cuba. 
On September 27, a CIA agent overheard Castro's personal pilot tell another man in a bar that Cuba now had nuclear weapons.  U-2 spy plane photographs also showed that unusual activity was taking place at San Cristobal. However, it was not until October 15 that photographs were taken that revealed that the Soviet Union was placing long range missiles in Cuba. 
(2:07 - 3:09)
President Kennedy's first reaction to the information about the missiles in Cuba was to call a meeting to discuss what should be done. Fourteen men attended the meeting and included military leaders, experts on Latin America, representatives of the CIA, cabinet ministers and personal friends whose advice Kennedy valued. This group became known as the Executive Committee  of the National Security Council. Over the next few days they were to meet several times. The CIA and the military were in favour of a bombing raid and / or an invasion. However, the majority of the committee feared that this would lead to a nuclear war with the Soviet Union and began to favour a naval blockade of Cuba. The army positioned 125, 000 men in Florida and was told to wait for orders to invade Cuba. If the Soviet ships carrying weapons for Cuba did not turn back or refused to be searched, a war was likely to begin. 
The world waited anxiously. There were angry demonstrations outside the American Embassy in London as people protested about the possibility of nuclear war. Demonstrations also took place in other European cities. However, in the United States, polls suggested that the vast majority supported Kennedy's action. 
On October 26, Nikita Khrushchev sent Kennedy a letter in which he proposed that the Soviet Union would be willing to remove the missiles in Cuba in exchange for a promise by the United States that they would not invade Cuba. The next day a second letter from  Khrushchev arrived, demanding that the United States remove their nuclear bases in Turkey. 
While the president and his advisers were analyzing the two letters, news came through that a U-2 plane had been shot down over Cuba. The leaders of the military, reminding Kennedy of the promise he had made, argued that he should now give orders for the bombing of Cuba. Kennedy refused and instead sent a letter to Khrushchev accepting the terms of his letter. 

The Cuban Missile Crisis was the first and only nuclear confrontation between the United States and the Soviet Union. The event appeared to frighten both sides and it marked a change in the development of the Cold War
In the 1960 presidential election campaign, John F. Kennedy argued for a new Civil Rights Act. After the election it was discovered that over 70 per cent of the African American vote went to Kennedy.

Kennedy's civil rights bill was brought before Congress in 1963 and in a speech on television on 11th June, Kennedy pointed out that:
 "The Negro baby born in America today, regardless of the section of the nation in which he is born, has about one-half as much chance of completing high school as a white baby born in the same place on the same day; one third as much chance of completing college; one third as much chance of becoming a professional man; twice as much chance of becoming unemployed; about one-seventh as much chance of earning $10,000 a year; a life expectancy which is seven years shorter; and the prospects of earning only half as much."

On 22nd November, 1963, President John F. Kennedy arrived in Dallas. It was decided that Kennedy and his party, including his wife, Jacqueline Kennedy, Vice President Lyndon B. Johnson, Governor John Connally and Senator Ralph Yarborough, would travel ub a procession of cars through the business district of Dallas. A pilot car and several motorcycles rode ahead of the presidential limousine. As well as Kennedy the limousine included his wife, John Connally, his wife Nellie, Roy Kellerman, head of the Secret Service at the White House and the driver, William Greer. The next car carried eight Secret Service Agents. This was followed by a car containing Lyndon Johnson and Ralph Yarborough.

At about 12.30 p.m. the presidential limousine entered Elm Street. Soon afterwards shots rang out. John Kennedy was hit by bullets that hit him in the head and the left shoulder. Another bullet hit John Connally in the back. Ten seconds after the first shots had been fired the president's car accelerated off at high speed towards Parkland Memorial Hospital. Both men were carried into separate emergency rooms. Connally had wounds to his back, chest, wrist and thigh. Kennedy's injuries were far more serious. He had a massive wound to the head and at 1 p.m. he was declared dead. 
Within two hours of the killing, a suspect, Lee Harvey Oswald, was arrested. Throughout the time Oswald was in custody, he stuck to his story that he had not been involved in the assassination. On 24h November, while being transported by the Dallas police from the city to the country jail, Oswald was shot dead by Jack Ruby


The murder case is full of mystery and until that day it is unknown who really stands behind the assassination and what his reasons are. There are numerous conspiracy theories, but none of them has been proven to be true. One is certain - Lee Harvey Oswald was either a set up innocent or just a puppet, used by an Anonymous society/organisation.




Sen. John F. Kennedy and wife Jackie campaigning for President.

Oct 27, 2011

The Love of Yesterday






nikkithemouse:

“May I come in? Thank you. May I kiss you? Thank you.”


cliodulaine:

The touch of his skin against hers was not a caress, but a wave of pain. It became pain by being wanted too much, by releasing in fulfillment all the past hours of desire and denial…

The Fountainhead


“It had to have rocks in the distance, so the water could strike the boulders and shoot upward — all very symbolic. The scene turned out to be deeply affecting on film, but, God, it was no fun to shoot. We had to time it for the waves, so that at just the right moment a big one would come up and wash over us. Most of the waves came up only to our feet, but we needed one that would come up all the way. We were like surfers, waiting for the perfect waves. Between each take, we had to do a total cleanup. When it was all over, we had four tons of grit in our mouths — and other places.” — Deborah Kerr, referring to her famous romantic beach scene with Burt Lancaster in “From Here to Eternity”














I’m probably going to semi-spam this movie everyday until January 1st, 2011.


DEXTER: You look beautiful, Red. Come on in.TRACY: Why?DEXTER: No particular reason. A drink maybe?TRACY: I don’t drink.



A little depressed now. Ok, maybe a little more than a little...

Oct 25, 2011

EARGASM.

I found the 30 Seconds To Mars version of "Bad Romance" a couple of days ago. Much better than Lady Gaga. Then I found "Rainy Mood". 
And I can't stop listening. Amazing. 

A tip: Play them both at the same time.

(via the-apt-also-rises)



Oct 23, 2011

| Confusing what is real |



SPOILERS IN THE SECOND VIDEO AND THE COMMENTS! 


Black Swan - a definite masterpiece.
This is not a ballet film. Nor a "girly" film. It's a film about confusion, weakness, insecurity, obsession, pressure and the struggle to be perfect.
It shows that deep inside us there's a dark side and that when we desperately try to change our nature, change who we are, we unconsciously set it free... and it comes out to play...
We should never lose control.We should never cross the border between conscious and subconscious.We never know what's hiding there... 



Perfection is not just about control. It's also about letting go. 




P.S.: Perfection has its price.

"We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all."




Oct 21, 2011

Oct 20, 2011

Joanna - 1968



Icons of the 20th Century


5. Audrey Hepburn 
(May 4, 1929 - January 20, 1992) 
An Academy Award-winning actress, fashion model and a humanitarian.
Famous for:  Roman Holiday 1953
Sabrina 1954
Funny Face 1957
The Nun's story 1959
Breakfast at Tiffanny's 1961
Charade 1963
How to steal a Million 1966
Married to the American actor Mel Ferrer  (1954- 1968 - divorced) , and then to the Italian psychiatrist Andrea Dotti  (1969 -1982 - divorced). 

Born Audrey Kathleen Ruston in Brussels, Belgium, she was the only child of John Victor Hepburn-Ruston, an Anglo Irish banker, and Baroness Ella van Heemstra, a Dutch aristocrat descended from French and English kings. Her father later appended the name Hepburn to his surname, and Audrey's surname became Hepburn-Ruston. She had two half-brothers, Alexander and Ian Quarles van Ufford, by her mother's first marriage to a Dutch nobleman.
Audrey had the reputation of being a humble, kind and charming person, who lived the philosophy of putting others before herself. She showed this side particularly towards the end of her life in her work for the United Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF). New Woman magazine called Audrey the most beautiful woman of all time, in a 2006 poll. She was ranked as the third greatest female star of all time by the American Film Institute.

Audrey attended private schools in England and the Netherlands. Her mother was very strict and her father left the family when Audrey was young. She later called his abandonment the most traumatic moment of her life (years later she located her father and sent him money and wrote him many letters).
 During the Dutch famine over the winter of 1944, brutality increased and the Nazis confiscated the Dutch people's limited food and fuel supply for themselves. Without heat in their homes, or food to eat, people in the Netherlands starved and froze to death in the streets, particularly so in Arnhem, which was devastated during allied bombing raids that were part of Operation Market Garden. Suffering from malnutrition, Audrey developed several health problems. She would stay in bed and read to take her mind off the hunger, and she danced ballet for groups of people to collect money for the underground movement. She resorted to digging up and eating tulip bulbs to survive the famine. The impact of these times would shape her life and values.
After the war, Audrey and her mother moved to London, where she studied ballet, worked as a model, and in 1951, began acting in films, mostly in minor or supporting roles as Audrey Hepburn. She got into acting mainly to make money so that her mother would not have to work menial jobs to support them. Her first major performance was in the 1951 film The Secret People, in which she played a ballet dancer. Audrey had trained in ballet since childhood and won critical acclaim for her talent, which she showcased in the film. However, her ballet teachers had deemed her "too tall" to be a professional ballet dancer, since, at 5'7", she was taller than many of the male dancers. She was chosen to play the lead character in the Broadway play Gigi that opened on 24 November 1951. She won a Theatre World Award for her debut performance, and it had a successful six-month run in New York City.


Audrey was then offered a starring role opposite Gregory Peck in the Hollywood motion picture, Roman Holiday. Peck saw her star quality and insisted she share top billing. For her performance, she won the 1953 Academy Award for Best Actress. Years later, when asked by Barbara Walters what her favorite film was, Audrey answered without hesitation, Roman Holiday, because it was the one that made her a star.
After Roman Holiday she filmed Sabrina with Humphrey Bogart and William Holden, with whom she had a brief romance. Many believe Holden considered Audrey to be the love of his life, and she would go on to appear with him again in the comedy Paris, When It Sizzles.

In 1954, Audrey went back to the stage playing the water sprite in Ondine in a performance with Mel Ferrer, whom she would wed later that year. For her performance in Ondine, Audrey was awarded the Tony Award for Best Actress (1954) which, coming only six weeks after her academy award for Roman Holiday, solidified her reputation as both a film and stage star.
Having become one of Hollywood's most popular box-office attractions, Audrey co-starred with other major actors such as Fred Astaire in Funny Face, Humphrey Bogart and Gary Cooper in Love in the Afternoon, George Peppard inBreakfast at Tiffany's, Cary Grant in the critically acclaimed hit Charade, Rex Harrison in My Fair Lady, Peter O'Toole in How to Steal a Million, and Sean Connery in Robin and Marian.

Many of these leading men became very close to her. Rex Harrison called Audrey his favorite leading lady; Cary Grant loved to humor her and once said, "all I want for Christmas is to make another movie with Audrey Hepburn;" and Gregory Peck became a lifelong friend. After her death, Peck went on camera and tearfully recited her favorite poem, "Unending Love." Some believe Bogart and Audrey did not get along, but this is untrue.

In the early 1950s she was engaged to the young James Hanson. She called it "love at first sight;" however, after having her wedding dress fitted and date set, she decided the marriage would not work, due to the demands of his career that would require him to be gone on business most of the time. She had the wedding dress given to a poor Italian couple, who still have it today.
Audrey did marry, twice: to American actor Mel Ferrer and to an Italian doctor, Andrea Dotti, and had a son to each husband. Sean in 1960 by Ferrer, and Luca in 1970 by Dotti.

She married Mel Ferrer on 25 September 1954. The marriage lasted 14 years until 5 December 1968. In the later years of the marriage, Ferrer was rumored to have had a girlfriend on the side, while Audrey had an affair with her handsome Two for the Road co-star, Albert Finney. After the marriage fell apart, Audrey met Italian psychologist, Andrea Dotti on a cruise and fell in love with him on a trip to Greek ruins. She believed she would have many children, and possibly stop working. She married him on 18 January 1969. Although Dotti loved Audrey and was well-liked by Sean, who called him "fun," Dotti had affairs with younger women. The marriage lasted 13 years and ended in 1982 after Luca and Sean were old enough to handle life with a single mother.
Audrey met Mel Ferrer at a party hosted by Gregory Peck, and quickly fell in love with him. After Sabrina, Audrey went back to the stage, this time with Ferrer in a play called Ondine, in which she played a water sprite. Ferrer was rumored to be perhaps too controlling of Audrey, but in William Holden's words, "I think Audrey allows Mel to think he influences her."
At the time of her death, she was the companion of Robert Wolders, a handsome Dutch actor who was the widower of film star Merle Oberon. She met Wolders through a friend, in the later stage of her marriage to Dotti. Six months later, they met again for a drink, which turned into dinner. They fell in love, and after Audrey's divorce from Dotti was final, she and Wolders started their lives together, although they never married. In 1989, after nine years with him, she called them the happiest years of her life. "Took me long enough," she said in an interview with Barbara Walters. Walters also asked why she never married Wolders. Audrey replied that they were married, just not formally. Audrey and Wolders planned the UNICEF trips together. At every one of her moving speeches, Wolders would watch and sometimes shed tears.


Soon after Audrey's final film role, she was appointed a special ambassador to the United Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF). Grateful for her own good fortune after being a victim of the Nazi occupation as a child, she dedicated the remainder of her life to helping impoverished children in the world's poorest nations.
Though she had done work for UNICEF in the 50's, this was a much higher dedication. Those close to her say that the thoughts of dying, helpless children consumed her for the rest of her life. She visited countries in Africa and South Asia as part of UNICEF programs. She dedicated herself to spreading awareness of the conditions of these nations and doing what she could to help directly. In one interview, she mentioned buying camels and solar boxes so medicines could be delivered to a village in the middle of a desert. She worked tirelessly for UNICEF and various causes in Africa and other South Asian countries, even in the last months of her life.
Quotes: 
"I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles." 

"Your heart just breaks, that's all. But you can't judge or point fingers. You just have to be lucky enough to find someone who appreciates you." 

"The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It's the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows & the beauty of a woman only grows with passing years." 

"Pick the day. Enjoy it - to the hilt. The day as it comes. People as they come... The past, I think, has helped me appreciate the present, and I don't want to spoil any of it by fretting about the future." 

"I was born with an enormous need for affection, and a terrible need to give it." 

"I'm half-Irish, half-Dutch, and I was born in Belgium. If I was a dog, I'd be in a hell of a mess!" 

"Paris is always a good idea." 

"For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.

For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.

For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.

For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.

For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone. "
"You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him."